"Only dull people are brilliant at breakfast" -Oscar Wilde |
"The liberal soul shall be made fat, and he that watereth, shall be watered also himself." -- Proverbs 11:25 |
As recently as a few days ago, Mr. Kennedy was still digging into big bowls of mocha chip and butter crunch ice creams, all smushed together (as he liked it). He and his wife, Vicki, had been watching every James Bond movie and episode of “24” on DVD.
He began each morning with a sacred rite of reading his newspapers, drinking coffee and scratching the bellies of his beloved Portuguese water dogs, Sunny and Splash, on the front porch of his Cape Cod house overlooking Nantucket Sound.
If he was feeling up to it, he would end his evenings with family dinner parties around the same mahogany table where he used to eat lobster with his brothers.
He took phone calls from President Obama, house calls from his priest and — just a few weeks ago — crooned after-dinner duets of “You Are My Sunshine” (with his son Patrick) and “Just a Closer Walk with Thee” (with Vicki).
“There were a lot of joyous moments at the end,” said Dr. Lawrence C. Horowitz, Mr. Kennedy’s former Senate chief of staff, who oversaw his medical care. “There was a lot of frankness, a lot of hugging, a lot of emotion.”
Obviously, Dr. Horowitz added, there were difficult times. By this spring, according to friends, it was clear that the tumor had not been contained; new treatments proved ineffective and Mr. Kennedy’s comfort became the priority.
But interviews with close friends and family members yield a portrait of a man who in his final months was at peace with the end of his life and grateful for the chance to savor the salty air and the company of loved ones.
Even as Mr. Kennedy’s physical condition worsened over the summer, he still got out of bed every day until Tuesday, when he died in the evening, said Senator Christopher J. Dodd, Democrat of Connecticut and one of Mr. Kennedy’s closest friends in the Senate.
“I’m still here,” Mr. Kennedy would call colleagues out of the blue to say, as if to refute suggestions to the contrary. “Every day is a gift,” was his mantra to begin conversations, said Peter Meade, a friend who met Mr. Kennedy as a 14-year-old volunteer on Mr. Kennedy’s first Senate campaign.
Some patients given a fatal diagnosis succumb to bitterness and self-pity; others try to cram in everything they have always wanted to do (sky-diving, a trip to China). Mr. Kennedy wanted to project vigor and a determination tokeep on going. He chose what he called “prudently aggressive” treatments.
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While Mr. Kennedy typically told people he felt well and vigorous, by spring it was becoming clear that his disease was advancing to where he could not spend his remaining months as he had hoped, helping push a health care plan through the Senate.
He left Washington in May, after nearly a half-century in the capital, and decamped to Cape Cod, where he would contribute what he could to the health care debate via phone and C-Span. He would sail as much as possible, with as little pain and discomfort as his caretakers could manage.
He also told friends that he wanted to take stock of his life and enjoy the gift of his remaining days with the people he loved most.
“I’ve had a wonderful life,” he said repeatedly, friends recalled.
Labels: Ted Kennedy
On July 18, 1969, two days before Apollo 11 touched down on the moon, an evidently drunken Ted Kennedy drove his mom's Olds 88 into the drink, leaving young Mary Jo Kopechne inside to drown. Though he had ample opportunity to pull her from the car, and to call emergency services, he did not report the incident until the next day, after he had a chance to talk with his lawyer and friends about how to deal with Mary Jo's inconvenient corpse.
Meanwhile, fishermen had discovered the submerged Oldsmobile. A diver was called, who found the dead girl's body in a spot where an air bubble would have formed. He concluded:
"Had I received a call within five to ten minutes of the accident occurring, and was able, as I was the following morning, to be at the victim's side within twenty-five minutes of receiving the call, in such event there is a strong possibility that she would have been alive on removal from the submerged car."
In short, the sleazy Senator was clearly guilty of manslaughter. Given the media attention you would expect from such a sensational case, this should have been enough to end his political career, even in Massachusetts. But possibly due in part to the excitement of Apollo 11, the appalling incident never sufficiently penetrated the public consciousness. The drunken, irresponsible, self-centered killer went on to become what his fellow moonbats sometimes describe as "The Conscience of the Senate."
That should clear up your lifetime of denial as to what Uncle Ted got away with, and continued to get away with, up until the moment of his death.
Mary Jo! Mary Jo! Mary Jo!
If I remember correctly, Laura Bush ran over her boyfriend and killed him. What was his name? Can you tell me?
How many DUIs has Dick Cheney had? Why did he wait hours to make himself available to police after he shot Harry in the face?
Ted Kennedy made a mistake and a woman lost her life. He spent the rest of his life making up for it, and whether you realize it or not, he has made your life and the lives of those you love, Serr8d, better (assuming you have parents who are or will someday soon enjoy the benefits of Medicare, and perhaps the Americans with Disabilities Act, or Family and Medical Leave, or cancer research funding.)
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
It is really distressing to watch people misunderstand the end-of-life planning issue when so fears are misplaced. There's something to be scared of, all right. Just not what they think.
Also, it's damn fashionable to condemn somebody for drunk driving in retrospect now that drunk driving has become a social sin of equal or greater severity than smoking in restaurants, but everybody drove drunk in the 1960s, and you had to be a pretty serious repeat offender who was damn dangerous to other people (never mind yourself) to even get hit with a DUI in those days, let alone with losing your license. Not that I was there, but my Air Force parents have some horror stories...
But don't let me interrupt your hero-worship, your Wellstone-style promoting of Uncle Ted's bloated corpse as your newest symbol of Health Care in America; your martyrship of this drunken sex-starved symbol of privileged narcissism. Why, Mary Jo should've felt honored to have been killed, to help launch Teddy's career.
Wouldn't you have done the same thing, the sort of selfless sacrifice, if you knew your death would help Ted Kennedy become a hero of the proggtards? Would you?
Let's ask Mary Jo.
Wait...