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Jude is one of my favorite movies, and is definitely my favorite Brooding English Period Piece.  It's not Hardy's book; it's less scathing social satire and more doomed romance/
Jules and Jim than Hardy's book.  And Rachel Griffiths and Kate Winslet really ought to be cast in the reverse roles.  But the performances, the cinematography, the score -- were all fabulous, and cemented Michael Winterbottom as a Genius Director.  That he hasn't made a movie as good since is immaterial.
But as much as I loved this movie, I think this is hilarious: